What comes to your mind when you hear the word “conflict”? Most of us do not get warm fuzzy feelings. Depending on our life experiences, our responses can range from an unpleasant thought to absolute fear. As we look at conflict in a marriage, we find it plays out in Read more
I have to admit that these three points are not my own revelation. They were passed on to me by my good friend Grant Slevin (He’s also the guy that advises about our money, haha). Money Not matter how you look at it you are always going to argue about Read more
My dad always used to ask us if marriage was 50/50. The first time I answered “yes.” He went on to explain that marriage is not 50/50. Marriage is 100%. You give 100% of yourself to your spouse. It’s so easy to get into the comparison game of I did Read more
Have you or your spouse ever said: “It’s not what you said, it’s the way you said it!” So many arguments we have had in our marriage have little to do with the content and more to do with the context. I often say things in frustration which start an Read more
Consider this. God created everything and He said it was all good – except for one thing. He did not like it that man was alone. But being the good God that He is, He fixed the problem. God created woman and marriage in one fell swoop. Marriage was His Read more